tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34097688971545780292024-02-18T21:06:26.282-08:00Don't Be Stupid!You don't have to be stupid. It is a choice.K.N.K. Meoffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17791423490740642246noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409768897154578029.post-76606224298471588272012-02-23T07:44:00.002-08:002012-02-23T07:52:13.635-08:00Passwords: Don't use just one!A headline this morning caught my attention while scanning the BBC-UK news. It talked about a problem at a very popular website. Because of sloppy security, the server on which they store visitors' emails and passwords was attacked and many thousands of email/password combinations were stolen. The article notes that for those who use the same password for all their sites, this could be a serious problem.<br />
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The article offers this good advice: "If you’re still using the same password on multiple sites, this rather embarrassing lesson should act as a warning," said Graham Cluley, senior technology consultant at Sophos. "When users sign up for an online account, they have very little guarantee about the protection of their account information. It’s therefore essential that users use different, hard-to-guess passwords for every online account so that if their details are published online, hackers can’t use them to access other sites where they may be able to cause considerable financial damage."<br />
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Please tell me you don't use the same password everywhere! Apparently, based on the article, a good number of people do. Is the password you use for your online banking, Amazon shopping, and Google mail the same? OMG! Are you stupid?<br />
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A favorite tactic of scammers is to get an email address and one or more associated passwords. Then, using fairly simple programming, they start using the combination to try logging into places where they can make purchases or withdraw money. It is a numbers game. It costs the scammers almost nothing to check thousands of passwords against thousands of secured web sites, so even if 1/10 of 1% of people are stupid enough to use the same passwords, they can access lots of money.<br />
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When creating a password, consider whether the site you are accessing can ever involve transfer of funds. If so, you need a <b>secure</b>, <b>unique</b> password. For other sites, you might be safe using a "throw-away" password that you wouldn't mind losing. Think carefully about which you are dealing with and act accordingly. Never use an important password twice.<br />
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Don't be stupid!K.N.K. Meoffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17791423490740642246noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409768897154578029.post-91665136546944048042012-01-29T07:45:00.000-08:002012-01-29T07:45:11.548-08:00Getting Things Done - Henry Miller's CommandmentsHenry Miller wrote the following about writing but it applies to other tasks as well, with a little adjusting. [from Henry Miller on Writing (New Directions, 1964) p 161.] <br />
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2. Start no more new books, add no more new material to “Black Spring”<br />
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3. Don’t be nervous. Work calmly, joyously, recklessly on whatever is at hand.<br />
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6. Cement a little every day, rather than add new fertilizers.<br />
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7. Keep human! See people, go places, drink if you feel like it.<br />
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9. Discard the Program when you feel like it – but go back to it next day. Concentrate. Narrow down. Exclude.<br />
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10. Forget the books you want to write. Think only of the book you are writing.<br />
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11. Write first and always. Painting, music, friends, cinema, all these come afterwards.K.N.K. Meoffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17791423490740642246noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409768897154578029.post-64365755168037966292012-01-25T07:08:00.000-08:002012-01-26T07:40:32.877-08:00Frugal: Reduce College Costs with CLEPI'll bet you that most of you reading this have never heard of CLEP, <a href="http://clep.collegeboard.org/" target="_blank">College-Level Examination Program®</a>. Fortunately when I was applying for collages, The College Board had an excellent marketing campaign for it ... and the school I planned on attending accepted it. I was a solid B student, definitely not a brain, and was able to "test out of" a full year of college, the boring stuff. This was good because I was about one year short of funds to make it through.</p><p>The idea is that you take a standard test administered much like the SAT's. CLEP offers 33 exams in five subject areas, covering material taught in courses that you may generally take in your first two years of college. Most CLEP exams are designed to correspond to one-semester courses, although some correspond to full-year or two-year courses.</p><p>Their TV advertising program expressed the concept rather well. The ad showed Abraham Lincoln being interviewed for a job. The interviewer asked him about his education. Abe responded that he had done a lot of reading on his own and had apprenticed at a law firm. The interviewer shook his head and said that they required a diploma. The test is to recognize knowledge you might have gotten some other way. How about the excellent, and Free, online classes you can take, which poor Abe couldn't use, but you can?</p><p>Exams are approximately 90 minutes long, with the exception of College Composition, which is 120 minutes. Exams contain mainly multiple-choice questions. College Composition and a few other exams contain other types of questions and essays. They cost just under $100 per exam, so much lower than a college class.<br />
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If you get the required score, based on the requirements of the college you plan on attending, you get two benefits: First, the school gives you credit for the comparable class just as if you had taken it, at no cost. Second, you don't have to take these classes and can jump ahead to the next "real" class in the sequence.</p><p>I'll use myself as an example. (They have changed the names of the tests since I took them, and have added more, so you'll have to adjust the terminology, but you'll get the idea). I passed the tests that correspond to English Composition I and II. On my transcript, these showed as English Composition I and II with a notation about them being from the CLEP test. I could start my freshman year with a more advanced English class at the sophomore level. I also passed the College Algebra test, allowing me to skip the 1-semester basic class, so I could start with Algebra II. They have changed the history and social sciences tests a lot since I took them, but I tested out of two semesters of classes there. I also passed the biology and a chemistry tests, although I can't imagine how. Today they offer tests not available then, which means I could have tested out of even more. Remember, I was just a solid B student. You don't have to be exceptional to pass the tests.</p><p>You should check out the program, see if the college you want to attend accepts them (there are 2900 that do), and consider buying the study guides ($10 each) to give you a leg up. With the high price of colleges, even community colleges, it is well worth your while to see if you can test out of a semester or even a whole year of college. Good luck!</p><p><b>P.S.</b> I just checked a few more colleges on their policies. There are major differences, so check carefully. For example, Penn State doesn't allow credit for College Composition, but U of Mass does. Another school I checked didn't give actual credits for the classes but would use the test to meet a pre-req requirement. Yet another school gave credit for one of the three English Composition tests but not the other two, and the one they accept is not what you'd expect.</p>K.N.K. Meoffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17791423490740642246noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409768897154578029.post-64190808954280727052012-01-23T06:20:00.000-08:002012-01-23T06:22:19.625-08:00Get your accounting in order with QuickBooksI've been using QuickBooks since 2004. I reviewed all of the alternatives, including Quicken and do-it-yourself spreadsheets, but found QuickBooks to be the easiest to use. Their technical support is very good, including when your problem is accounting rather than computer-related.<br />
They offer several different versions, depending on your business and which of the functions you want it to handle. QuickBooks Pro is their most popular, and the one I'm currently using. It does everything I need, and lets me ignore the functions I don't need. (For some reason, the same exact product but for Mac is just called QuickBooks).<br />
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Unfortunately, they discontinued a stripped down product called "Simple Start", not to be confused with "Online Simple Start". I'm not real keen about doing my accounting connected to their website. The online products end up costing you $13/month so after 18 months you will have paid as much as if you had bought the Pro product. They may pester you to upgrade every year, but I don't see the benefit. I generally upgrade every three years ... unless I find a good upgrade promotion.<br />
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Like any accounting software package, you need to know basic money management before you start, but you <u>don't</u> have to really know accounting. As long as you understand how a checkbook works and at least the categories of expenses and income you'll have, you will be all set.<br />
I really like their installation process. They ask you a few questions about your business and then set it up for the "standard" model, which should have you covered. If there is stuff installed that you don't need, you can just ignore it. For a small business, this generally amounts to bank accounts, and a list of "accounts" representing the usual expense and income categories. You can add later if you need to. I've never bothered to remove categories that don't apply. They really don't get in the way.<br />
I just did an upgrade for my computer-phobic sister, who was going from QuickBooks Pro 2004 to 2012. After installation, it updated her current account file to the new format with no problems. <br />
Shop around for the best price. Sometimes directly from Intuit is actually the best price. Other times, you can find better prices at Amazon or other online retailers. Also watch for sales.<br />
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<ol><li>Do you know shit from Shinola? Shinola is a brand of shoe polish that was popular during World War II. It is recognizable by the word “Shinola” on its container. Shit generally does not come in a can and does not say “Shinola” on it.<br />
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<li>How to pour piss out of a boot. Apparently in some parts of the country, it is customary to piss in one's boots. Therefore it is necessary to know how to remove the piss. Because of the assumed low IQ's of those who piss in their boots, instructions are put on the bottom of the boots, on the heel. The simple act of reading the instructions generally results in dumping the piss out of the boots. We give one point for answering yes and two points for not pissing in your boots in the first place.<br />
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<li>Which is further west: Reno, NV or Los Angeles, CA? Although California is on the west coast, it's southern part curves toward the east. As a result, Reno, NV, which is located in the western part of Nevada, is actually further west than Los Angeles. Because this is an important test, if you weren't sure, you should have looked it up. To not do so indicates that you are not too bright.<a name='more'></a><br />
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<li>Is that you? Generally when you look into a mirror, you see yourself. If you hold the mirror at an angle, you might end up seeing someone else who is standing beside or behind you. If you don't know enough to look straight into a mirror, you are stupid and get no points.<br />
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<li>Are you a Republican, Democrat, Independent, Liberal, Conservative, or Moderate? Notice that the question doesn't ask if you are a member of some party or if generally your views fall into a particular category. It asks if you <u>are</u> one of those. If you <u>are</u> one of those, that means that you make a decision on an issue before hearing what the issue is or considering the merits of the issue. If you make up your mind on all issues based on whether they are approved by one of those classifications, you are stupid and get no points.<br />
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<li>Are you making this decision of your own free will? Once again, if you let someone else make important decisions for you, without your own analysis, you are stupid and get no points. If someone else told you how to answer, but you thought about it and agreed, you should take responsibility for the choices and answer Yes. A No answer gets no points regardless.<br />
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</ol>If you can't get at least 60% of these questions right, you should not be making important life decisions.K.N.K. Meoffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17791423490740642246noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409768897154578029.post-89703038894345204372012-01-14T07:42:00.000-08:002012-01-23T10:33:22.460-08:00What business are they in?My mentor (What? You don't have one!) and I were talking recently and he referred to something I had just said as "Knock's Rule #1". I didn't recall ever defining a "Rule #1", so I asked him to explain. I don't always realize it when I say something really smart, but he does.<br />
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Whenever we are talking about sources of information, or pretty much anything we read, I almost always ask the question, what is the business of the source. Ah yes, I remember saying this a few hundred times. Example: Most news sources make their money (both income to cover expenses and profits for themselves and their investors) from advertising. The price you pay for your local news paper covers only a small portion of its expenses. The rest is made up by advertising. Without advertising, they would close their doors. They wouldn't have a choice. Circulation numbers are important, not so much for the income they produce, but because the higher the numbers the higher the advertising rates they can charge.<br />
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So when you are reading something, ask yourself what business the source is in and take that into consideration when deciding how much trust to put in the source. This doesn't mean that because the business is advertising, and not primarily public service news reporting, that there isn't a great deal of journalistic integrity. There are varying degrees, which you have to sort out for yourself.<br />
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</ul><p>An exception came to my attention as I read the news over my morning tea. I was reading an exceptionally good article that was so good that I was somewhat startled. I then applied "Rule #1". This particular news outlet is selling just one thing: its own subscription. They offer some really good free articles to get you interested enough to buy a subscription for $80/year, or $149/year for both the online version and their monthly printed version. (I don't know, but suspect that there is advertising in their printed version.) To get and keep subscribers, they must be worth it. Sources that rely primarily on subscriptions are more likely to be reliable. ... but not always!<br />
</p><p>You don't need to go nuts analyzing every source of information, but you should consider it as you read. "They" are not all out there to benefit mankind. Don't be Stupid: consider the source.<br />
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I can't help you evaluate web development tools because I do most of my development by hand (other than this blog). I've been doing this since the internet was invented and the tools designed for the non-technical just slow me down. They also, often anyway, generate dreadful HTML code. For a personal website, this might not matter, but for business sites it can mean the difference between a site that brings in new business and one that nobody ever sees.<br />
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What I will comment on is cost, availability, and technical support. Cost is easy to measure: just look at their price for a package that meets you needs. Availability is how often their servers are up and available. Most have up time above 99%. Check out what the company says, and then check around for reviews to see what really goes on. (Take all reviews with a grain of salt, even mine, and check the date of the review. Things change.) There are lots of options for companies in the same price range and with similar availability records.<br />
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I'll repeat a bit about using reviews. Definitely read several and question what you read. Some reviews are "planted", paid for positive or negative reviews. Some are from a customer who had one bad experience. And also check the date. The company I have used the longest, <a href="http://www.kqzyfj.com/click-5606223-10358717" target="_top">APLUS.NET</a>, went through a change of management and then was bought by another company and delivered dreadful technical support for a while. There are some really bad reviews out there that were accurate <u>at the time</u>. Fortunately, they got their act together and have returned to acceptable, but not stellar technical support.<br />
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<hr><b>Important</b>: If you are going to hire a web developer, talk with him/her BEFORE you sign up for hosting. Having the wrong package can cost you lots in monthly fees and additional development costs if the host doesn't have the required tools and facilities.K.N.K. Meoffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17791423490740642246noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409768897154578029.post-68832113684081934542012-01-12T09:24:00.000-08:002012-01-12T12:42:22.363-08:00Frugal: My recommendations policyI was asked about the product and service recommendations in my posts. Specifically, are these paid enforcements or my personal analysis and recommendation? It is good that you asked. You should <u>always</u> know the business of the person recommending something to you, or a person expressing their point of view. (Tip: most news outlets are in the <i>advertising business</i> not news business).<br />
</p><p>There are two kinds of ads or references to specific products and services at my sites. The ones <u>outside</u> the actual post content are automatically generated by folk like Google. I have little control over what they display and do <u>not</u> necessarily endorse the products or services displayed. Google et al do a pretty good job of screening advertisers and displaying ads that relate to the content of the website.<br />
</p><p>Then there are mentions, links, or ads <u>within</u> a post. <b>All products or services recommended in my posts are things I have used or acquired for evaluation and personally recommend.</b> Of course, if my post blasts a specific product or service, I do NOT recommend them.</p><p>I try to make sure to have written an article about a product or service before I include a link or ad for it. Occasionally I might put up the ad before I've gotten around to writing about it. If you can't find my evaluation for a product whose ad you see, you can safely assume I recommend the product and will eventually write about it. If you are really curious about such a product, comment on the post and I'll get back to you.<br />
</p><p>Frugal is smart; Cheap is stupid!</p>K.N.K. Meoffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17791423490740642246noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409768897154578029.post-76087364059339455992012-01-10T14:36:00.000-08:002012-01-12T07:22:30.819-08:00Surround Yourself with Useful and Good Stuff<p style="text-align:center"><img src="http://www.knockmeoff.com/images/top-stories.jpg" alt="top-stories" /></p><p>There are two things wrong with this picture. This screen capture was taken from the ABC News Portal on January 10, 2012, the day of the Republican Primary in NH. The left side shows a fairly typical US news mix of national news with a couple of non-US items mixed in. The right shows the most viewed news items based on the number of times individual articles are read.</p><p>Are people reading useful information or are they reading worthless, and arguably not even entertaining news? Certainly they are doing the latter. One might question why most of those on the right are even there, unless you consider what business the ABC News portal is in. (It is in the advertising business and the content is just filler, so it doesn't matter if the content is useless as long as people read it).<br />
</p><p>If you surround yourself with useful information, you are more likely to learn something useful or to do something useful. The reverse causes the opposite. Although there isn't much negative on this particular day, I'd also like to point out that if you surround yourself with positive news you will feel positive and happy. If you surround yourself with negative news and thoughts, you will feel negative and unhappy. (Question: what happens when you watch an episode of Cops? What happens if you watch an episode of Cops every night?)<br />
</p><p>The other problem is that the Top Stories list is very limited, yet is typical of US news portals. Unless you also follow some non-US news portals you don't know that Iran is now enriching uranium underground and there has been a buildup of US military in the region, after a major reduction as troops in Iraq returned home. You wouldn't know about a couple more shots in the Syrian conflict were fired. There are at least a dozen more important stories that should be on the list on the left, and at least some of them on the right.</p><p>Try it for a week: Read only news items that at least have a chance of being important and useful. Skip over the worthless. At the end of a week consider whether you had a better week? I think you'll see the difference.</p>K.N.K. Meoffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17791423490740642246noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409768897154578029.post-36640024246058209822012-01-10T13:39:00.000-08:002012-01-10T13:39:08.540-08:00Frugal: Musical Instruments and Supplies<p>In general, I suggest you support your local businesses ... if they are worthy. If they offer quality products and services at a fair price, use them. But if they don't, look elsewhere, such as on the web.</p><p>Unfortunately, my favorite local music store closed down. I don't know the inside story, but they suddenly announced they were closing this and four other stores they owned in other cities. This is particularly disappointing because there aren't a lot of alternatives. There are only two other music stores in the area. One is very specialized and their specialty isn't what I need.</p><p>The other music store is run by evil crooks. A plain crook will just take your money and not give you something of equal value in return. I don't really mind crooks much: buyer beware. But these evil crooks also take advantage of young people who have no alternative other than them. Kids and teenagers can't travel far for their music supplies and music lessons. This particular store is the only place around for music lessons, and every Saturday the place is packed with high school and middle school kids taking their lessons. I don't know if their prices on their lessons are fair, and if the teachers are good. I hope so. But their prices on the products are consistently double what I used to get at the store that closed down. The other store was just a little over what you could find online, and that is fine. Charging kids double when they have no other choice is evil.<br />
</p><p>After a run-in with the evil crook's store over their return policy, I decided to blast them with a negative online review. When I got there, I found a dozen reviews blasting them for the same things already. I thought I might have been too harsh until I read the other reviews.<br />
</p><p>I have used two online music stores for years. They are very different from each other, so you should check out both and decide which is a better match for your needs.</p><p><i>Musician's Friend</i> is a good all-round music store. If you are looking for fairly normal music stuff, they are a great choice. Good prices, good products, and good service. Particularly good for guitars, basses, amps, and drums. A little light on band instruments, but a great supply of band instrument accessories.</p><p><i>Elderly Instruments</i> is where I go if I want something out of the ordinary, although their normal music stuff is good too. Their used and collectible instrument selection is excellent. If you play bluegrass, old folk, Celtic music etc. their "Folk/Other Instruments" section is the place to go. They also have a wide range of parts, such as guitar bridges, tailpieces, and tuning pegs.<br />
</p>K.N.K. Meoffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17791423490740642246noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409768897154578029.post-16043345416338943442012-01-10T11:45:00.000-08:002012-01-10T11:45:02.577-08:00Frugal is Good - Cheap is Stupid<p style="text-align:center; font-style:italic;">Good, Fast, Cheap. Choose any two.</p><p><i>Frugal</i>: Practicing economy; living without waste; thrifty.<br /><i>Cheap</i>: Low priced, regardless of quality. Often shoddy.</p><p>Particularly in tough times, you feel forced to take the low price product or service even though you know that you usually get what you pay for. This is not frugal and is often not the most thrifty in the long run. People make the wrong decision and choose cheap for a lot of reasons, but the one I will be dealing with in this series is lack of information on the frugal alternative. I will help you see how to make better choices.</p><p>A common advertising technique is to stress the convenience of their product to convince you that buying it will save you time and time is money. They say it enough that eventually it is accepted as fact. You don't even think about it any more. A product that comes to my mind as the poster child for this technique is Hamburger Helper&reg;, which was introduced in 1971. It was advertised as a major time-saving product. Just brown your hamburger, dump in some water and their “flavor packet” and you soon have a meal for you and your family. As long as you don't think about the cost of their product compared to the cost of the ingredients and you also don't think about the tiny savings in time to prepare the meal from scratch (with a little preparation, which I'll talk about in another post) you happily go along feeding General Mills's corporate coffers and loading your family up with sodium (salt) and other stuff.</p><p>It isn't just food, which you'll see in other posts in this series.</p>K.N.K. Meoffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17791423490740642246noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409768897154578029.post-20159618525734162682012-01-03T09:05:00.000-08:002012-01-03T09:05:05.764-08:00One source of news is stupid ... and unnecessaryAll news media, whether it be print, broadcast, or internet has one primary goal (and a bunch of subordinate goals). The primary goal is to sell advertising. This isn't necessarily bad. Without the advertising they couldn't pay for the people and other expenses involved in reporting the news. As long as you remember that this is the case, you can factor it into your analysis of what you read, see, and hear.<br />
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The secondary goals should also be considered. Unfortunately few news outlets or individual reporters are looking to earn a Pulitzer. If they were, we'd have much better reporting. You need to do real journalism to win a Pulitzer. Even with the different political and social leanings of the US news outlets, when your news comes from even a collection of them, you aren't getting a well-rounded perspective.<br />
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Because you have access to the internet, you have access to the whole world of news outlets. I started adding their feeds to my Yahoo portal page for investment purposes. I look beyond the US for investing and need to know more about what is going on in other countries and regions, beyond what I was finding in US sources.<br />
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Once I started following these, I started seeing important news events that were not being mentioned in the US news. Just like other news sources, you have to remember what they are in business for and what their biases are, but the more sources you have the more the biases get balanced. <br />
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All significant news sites have an RSS feed. If you haven't used these before, you might have to do a little reading, but if you already have a news portal like Yahoo or Google, they are pretty much automatic. Go to Google and look for xxx news, where xxx is a region, country, or even city. Check them out for a couple of days before adding them to your news portal. You have choices, so don't just grab the first you find. Once you have them, you don't need to spend much more time than you do with a US-only feed. You can scan the headlines just as you do today, and then read details selectively. You might consider:<br />
<ul><li><a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/" target="_blank">BBC UK </a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world/asia/" target="_blank">BBC Asia</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.atimes.com/" target="_blank">Asia Times</a>, startlingly different perspective</li>
<li><a href="http://www.aniin.com/" target="_blank">Asian News International </a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.euronews.net/" target="_blank">Euronews</a></li>
</ul>K.N.K. Meoffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17791423490740642246noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409768897154578029.post-38542398616386732772012-01-02T13:43:00.000-08:002012-01-02T13:43:17.996-08:00Expensive jewelry is stupidDisclaimer: If you are really rich, and have enough money that you'll never have to work a day in the rest of your life, none of the articles about expensive stuff applies to you. I'm targeting regular people who have to pay rent (or a mortgage), buy groceries, and scrounge up enough money to pay for all the other things that keep you alive.<br />
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You are not a Christmas tree. You do not need to be decorated.<br />
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Jewelry is almost never a good investment, so if you are buying jewelry for that reason you are stupid. Yes, there are ups and downs, and that gold chain you bought back in 1985 is likely worth more than you paid for it. Gold prices are up right now. The same goes for diamonds. But I'll bet the price you paid for that diamond ring wasn't based on the price of diamonds and gold. You likely paid more than twice that, in which case you are still in the hole.<br />
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"The media" (whoever that is) has conspired to convince you that you need and deserve expensive jewelry. I have a 1970's book by a famous "manners" person who states the then-current view on engagement rings. A reasonable amount to spend on an engagement ring was one month's salary of the groom. The advice adds, "if you can afford it". I searched around the web for the current advice. The consensus seems to be that two month's salary is a reasonable amount to spend. I wonder how the relative amount of a reasonable amount happened!<br />
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On the teaser for one of those @#$%ing reality shows last year, it showed a couple in a jewelry store shopping for an engagement ring. The bride-to-be immediately fell in love with a $35,000 ring. The groom-to-be thought she was kidding since this represented almost a year's salary. The prospective bride went into a rant about how if he loved her he would buy it and how she had no idea that he was so thoughtless. <br />
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Yes the bride-to-be is stupid, but not unusually stupid. I know several couples who are struggling to live but have a lot of expensive jewelry. They are convinced that they deserve it, that the suggestion that they don't need and shouldn't buy such things (instead of food and other necessities) is an elitist attitude. Why can Mr. Rich Guy have these things and we can't? The answer is obvious: he's rich and you aren't. Sorry about that, but it is a fact. Once you get rich, buy all you want.<br />
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A reasonable amount of moderately priced jewelry is OK, but unless you are well to do and have money to burn, buying expensive jewelry is stupid. If a couple is in conflict over the engagement ring (and it can be either partner who is pushing the upside) there will be problems down the road. <br />
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P.S. I must confess that I did break down and bought my wife a pair of expensive diamond ear rings one anniversary. But in my defense, this was the year I hit my highest annual income and had substantial savings, and was ahead of my target toward being financially independent. I also consulted with the diamond fanatics I worked with and contacted their dealer, so I got the ear rings at about half the price of the retail outlets. (I also got educated on diamond quality and pricing so I knew what I was dealing with). I may be off a bit, but I believe she has worn them at most once a year since then.<br />
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You are not a Christmas tree and don't need to be decorated. And, by the way, you don't need to add anything to look great.K.N.K. Meoffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17791423490740642246noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409768897154578029.post-12644802357932555702012-01-02T12:52:00.000-08:002012-01-02T12:52:51.365-08:00Writing advice from George OrwellIn his essay, "Politics and the English Language," published in 1946, George Orwell (author of 1984 etc.) offered advice writing for common communication (in contrast to literary writing), "for expressing and not for concealing or preventing thought." His five points are:<br />
<ol><li> Never use a metaphor, simile, or other figure of speech which you are used to seeing in print.</li>
<li> Never us a long word where a short one will do.</li>
<li> If it is possible to cut a word out, always cut it out.</li>
<li> Never use the passive where you can use the active.</li>
<li> Break any of these rules sooner than say anything outright barbarous. </li>
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<blockquote>If you simplify your English, you are freed from the worst follies of orthodoxy. You cannot speak any of the necessary dialects, and when you make a stupid remark its stupidity will be obvious, even to yourself. Political language -- and with variations this is true of all political parties, from Conservatives to Anarchists -- is designed to make lies sound truthful and murder respectable, and to give an appearance of solidity to pure wind.</blockquote>K.N.K. Meoffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17791423490740642246noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409768897154578029.post-42616183021101882232012-01-01T17:08:00.000-08:002012-01-10T13:44:59.429-08:00Critical Thinking<blockquote>He then advises them to use logic, lamenting, "Why don't they teach logic at these schools?"<br />
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-- The Lion, the Witch and the Wardrobe, by C. S. Lewis</blockquote><p>I worked for many years for a large corporation with a very simple one-word slogan, “THINK”. (It was a good thing that we had THINK signs all over the place because even with them there were many who forgot to). Sometimes simple is good, but not in this case. Simply thinking isn't enough. Many people do a lot of thinking and never have a good idea or figure anything out. You have to think critically. You can find some really complex definitions out there that may be way more accurate than how I express it, but at least your brain doesn't explode trying to get your hands around how I'm about to define it.<br />
</p><p>When I talk about critical thinking I am concerned with drawing conclusions (and presumably taking appropriate action) based on un-biased, clear, reasonably complete checking of the facts. How much checking is needed to be “reasonably complete” depends on the subject. How important is it? What are the consequences to being wrong? Are your decisions or actions irrevocable? Generally if you are going to take any action, now or in the future, or you find the subject worthy enough to comment about verbally or in writing, it is worthy of at least some research and thought. To not think critically is stupid.<br />
</p><p>I have a habit of reading my Facebook page or reading comments to online news items while eating lunch. I can't remember the last time I did this without reading at least one item that demonstrated that the writer applied absolutely no thought before responding.<br />
</p><p>Why does this matter? Propaganda depends on your not thinking critically. Propaganda's close cousin, advertising, also depends on your not thinking critically. You are constantly bombarded with both and neither are there for your benefit. Yes, there are some good causes and good products, but if they are truly good they will still appear good after you think about it. Worst of all, lack of critical thinking is habit forming and contagious. Great civilizations have been lost because its citizens forgot how to think critically, or just got too lazy to think.<br />
</p><p>I'll give more examples in future posts, along with suggestions about how to improve your critical thinking, but I'd like to pass on an example I encountered today. A "friend" on my Facebook page, a raving left-wing activist (but I like him anyway) posted a reference to a poster about inequality in our justice system. The heading says, "Our two-tiered justice system". Below that are two pictures. One is a good looking white guy in a suit labeled, "This man could face up to 6 months in prison or home detention for stealing $2.5 million dollars." The other picture is a black guy in what appears to be prison garb with the caption, "This man spent 33 years in prison for stealing a $140 black and white TV." The bottom of the poster says, "Crime Does Pay for the 1%."<br />
</p><p>The Facebook post is followed by many responses, most saying how terrible the system is, and how the rich always get away with their crimes and the poor fellow doesn't etc. Some argue that white-collar crimes should result in lower sentences than "real" crimes and that while both are bad, if you have crowded prisons you should use the space for dangerous criminals. Regardless of the comments, I didn't read one response that indicated that the author had done even basic research on the subject. All responded with strong opinions reacting only to the information presented, which was incomplete and unsubstantiated. (I forgot to mention that the names of the two criminals are given on the poster). All of the comments, until I posted my response, were biased, based upon muddled reasoning, and showed no evidence of checking the facts. Although not the topic of this post, this is also a good example of not asking what the purpose of the original poster was created.<br />
</p><p>With about a minute of research on each person on the poster, I found:<br />
</p><ul><li>The white-collar guy was found guilty of insider trading because he used information given him by his father about a business transaction in the works which he used to buy stock in a company and flip it for a $2.5 million dollar gain. The father was also convicted and tossed off the board of directors of the company. They guy was given a suspended sentence, prohibited from working in the finance industry ever again, required to return all of the money, and has to pay a fine (amount not specified). Definitely a bad fellow.<br />
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<li>The other fellow, the thief who stole a TV set, definitely got an unreasonable sentence, although he wasn't initially sentenced to the 33 years stated on the poster, nor was it a simple theft. Although not tried for assault, the record shows that he walked into the home of an 87-year old woman, "roughed her up", and took off with the TV set. He was caught before he could sell it. At the time he had a long rap sheet for thefts and some violent crimes. While I couldn't find the exact initial sentence in the press clippings, everybody, including the prosecution say the sentence was unreasonable. However, his prison stay was extended because of numerous prison rule violations including weapons charges and violence. He was denied parole 25 times. While there is no question that he got a bad deal, he is hardly the poster child for injustice.<br />
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</ul><p>So what's the point? Whether "they" are trying to sell you a product or a politician, or they are trying to get you to take action on their cause, they are counting on your not checking the facts. They are counting on you to react without thinking. They don't really think they are going to get away with fooling all of the people, but it is a numbers game. x% (whatever they think they can get away with) times a really big number is a big enough number.<br />
</p><p>When you see or hear something, check out the facts before buying, voting, or commenting. Not doing so is stupid.</p>K.N.K. Meoffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17791423490740642246noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409768897154578029.post-74935190640756792582012-01-01T10:04:00.000-08:002012-01-23T10:34:57.324-08:00Nancy Cooper MooreIn my post "First, Fly the Plane", I mention my flight instructor, Nancy Cooper Moore. She's one of the more memorable people I've encountered, so I thought I'd put some of it down here.<br />
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I haven't seen or heard from Nancy since I moved away from where I took my flying lessons. Still, I carry with me many things she taught me even though I haven't flown for many years. She believed that flying was much more than just how to work the controls, how to work the radios and navigation, and how to work with the wind patterns. Flying is about working with nature, people, and machines all in harmony.<br />
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I'll never forget the first time I met Nancy. After talking with a co-worker's husband who had his own plane, I drove to the small local airport (FAA identifier 20N) just outside Kingston, NY. It has a 3100-foot paved runway, not too short, but not long enough to do stop-and-go landings. There were two buildings on the property, a hanger where they did maintenance, and a two-room building where they had their office and held ground school classes.<br />
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When I walked in, Nancy was sitting at a table talking with the airport owner and one of the other flight instructors. She was wearing a floor-length skirt (a.k.a. a "granny skirt" and plaid shirt. Sitting beside her was Sauron, her Afghan dog, who looked remarkably like Farah Fawcett. (Nancy and her dog were on David Letterman on time for the "Stupid Pet Tricks" segment). My first thought was, "That's Granny Clampett but that sure isn't ol' Duke!"<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj7C096p_Z-N04_O-Xc1QfZAlkLhEkMuG7qzAU3hezaX5cIgOWi1CnhrV5uaZjZqmfPyp4PUpXgHOg4D2hgfcRDhs8BNxue8jfCJoZOCb9jmZmHb1GnI2ZuXRmUZEHEK9QOONuSVJXtjba5/s1600/nancy2.png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj7C096p_Z-N04_O-Xc1QfZAlkLhEkMuG7qzAU3hezaX5cIgOWi1CnhrV5uaZjZqmfPyp4PUpXgHOg4D2hgfcRDhs8BNxue8jfCJoZOCb9jmZmHb1GnI2ZuXRmUZEHEK9QOONuSVJXtjba5/s200/nancy2.png" width="138" /></a>The two flight instructors tossed a coin and Nancy won me. I'll skip over all the stuff about the introductory flight and the training and get right to Nancy, but will mention one point about that first flight. When we had landed and were walking back to the office building, she said, "If you are going to fly, you need a lucky clover for your log book." She then looked at the ground for about a minute, bent over and picked a clover. After picking out the supplies I needed for my training, she took the clover she had picked and taped it to the inside cover of the log book. It had four leaves! I had never seen one before, and don't recall seeing one in the wild since. Nancy later explained that some clover are more prone to produce four leaves and they encouraged it along that part of the airport grounds for just such a purpose. <br />
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Nancy was definitely a character. As we flew together, I picked up bits and pieces about her, some of which I later checked out to be sure it wasn't all tall tales. She lived back in the woods near Woodstock, NY, heated with wood and spent her non-flying time doing various crafts and studying insects. She had been flying since she was a teenager, which was a long time ago when I met her. When I mentioned her to my boss at the time, a middle-aged fellow, he told me about the time Nancy, then Nancy Cooper, took his cub scout troop one at a time for a flight over the Hudson River. I still don't know how old Nancy was but the cub scout event had to have been twenty-five years before I met her.<br />
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Back when she started flying, there weren't that many women fliers, despite Amelia Earhart. She was a member of the Flying 99's, a club started in 1929 for women fliers. She participated in cross-country air races in the late 1940s through the 1950's (see clipping from the 1955 All Women Transcontinental Air Race). She made her living teaching flying and flying for small air shuttle services, carrying mostly parts between manufacturing and assembly plants in New York state.<br />
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Nancy also taught classes at the local collage. Her specialty was insects and the weather. She always told me that understanding weather was the second most important thing to know about flying. (The first is, of course, "First Fly the Plane"). Nancy would teach how to watch insect behavior to see what kind of weather was coming. She was amazingly accurate, particularly on longer-range forecasts. I tested her on this a few times. She would look at the ants beside the hanger and tell me the 5-day forecast. Then I would write down what The Weather Channel forecasted, then compare the two to what actually happened. Nancy was consistently more accurate than The Weather Channel.<br />
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She encouraged her flying students to get their spouses or significant others to become involved in flying. She often talked about fun things to do near airports within range. Interesting eating places were a favorite. Because you can't carry passengers until you have your license, she would set aside a day, with perfect weather, to take up the spouses so they knew what to expect. When she took up my wife, on a totally calm day with the sun shining, Nancy took a look at her just after pointing out the wonderful view of the Hudson River and the Kingston-Rhinecliff bridge. As Nancy tells it, my wife had turned a shade of green very similar to a blue spruce. The visions of flying from Kingston to visit our relatives in NH, or exploring the wonderful restaurants near other airports went down the drain. My wife never flew with me in a private plane.<br />
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I lost track of Nancy since moving away, shortly after getting my private pilot's license. I know that she continued to teach for at least several years after I left, and I've seen her class in the course catalog of the college where she sometimes taught. I hope that the piece of my t-shirt cut off and nailed to the hanger wall (a tradition for your first solo flight) is still there. I suspect she is no longer with us, but so many of her words come to mind still.<br />
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</div>K.N.K. Meoffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17791423490740642246noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409768897154578029.post-25767025596896235512012-01-01T09:12:00.000-08:002012-01-22T10:29:45.386-08:00"First, Fly the Plane"Many years ago, I got my pilot's license. It had been a dream since childhood but I never got around to doing anything about it (yeah, that's an excuse) until I talked with the husband of a co-worker who had his license and his own plane. I went to the small local airport, walked in, and was greeted by a little lady who looked a lot like Granny Clampett. (Read more about <a href="http://stupidtoo.blogspot.com/2012/01/nancy-cooper-moore.html">my flight instructor</a>.) Nancy Cooper Moore took me up for a free exploratory flight, which was wonderful, and I immediately signed up to start lessons the next day.<br />
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There was a lot to remember in the training, but as we were starting on emergency procedures, Nancy said something that remains firmly in my mind and comes to mind in many situations other than flying airplanes, "First, fly the plane". In an flying context, this means no matter what else is going on, your first priority is to keep the plane flying. If you are lost, first fly the plane. If you just ran out of fuel, first fly the plane. If you wandered into a MOA (military operations area), first fly the plane. When you are in a crisis, you often focus on the biggest, or loudest, or most scary part, but if you don't keep flying, you won't get a chance to fix the other problems.<br />
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In flying, it is more obvious when you forget this rule. Among other things, you start heading toward the ground much faster than you want. Or you get into an unusual attitude, like in a sharp turn or even upside down. Whatever else is going on, first you have to get control of the plane and keep it flying.<br />
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How does this relate to "Getting By"? As I was planning out the articles for this topic (yes, I actually do think about these before blabbering away), I kept wanting to add, "... but first make sure you ...". After a while, there were more "but first's" than there were real points. <br />
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When you are trying to Get By, or Get your Shit Together, or Stop Being Stupid, you must occasionally remind yourself to take care of the basics. You don't need to be reminded if you don't have air and water. You can go a while before you need to remind yourself that you need food. One good cold rainy day will remind you that you need shelter. Do you need to be reminded that you must somehow make enough money to take care of those last two, or have some other way to take care of them? (Yes, there are other ways, even if you don't want to depend on them for too long).<br />
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When I took a look at the selection of self-help books at the local book store, I found lots of good advice, some bad advice, and a fair number of pages with nothing other than ink on them. The common assumption in all of them is that you are already "flying the plane" and can continue to do so while implementing whatever advice they are giving you. For many people, they are so busy flying the plane that they give up on all else. For other people, they are so busy trying to do other things, they forget they have to fly the plane. Some don't even notice that they are crashing, or have already crashed!<br />
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I'll expand on this topic later, but let's end this post with an example. My daughter has been on her own since she graduated from high school. Her plans weren't always the best but she always worked and always managed to pay the rent and buy groceries. Eventually she came up with a good plan to improve her current and future prospects, but it required further education. She worked out a schedule and budget that could have worked, but depended on working a full-time job (which in itself is not easy to come by when you need to schedule around classes) while carrying a full course load at the local community college. The risk of one or both of these being neglected was significant. Fortunately, she stepped back and thought about "flying the plane", keeping up with rent, food, and other necessities. When literally flying a plane, there aren't too many choices about how you do it. In life, there are many more options, and trade-offs. <br />
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In my daughter's case, she agreed to move back in with the folks for six months to let her save up some money and to devote more attention to her studies, and workng part time. (It isn't easy to go back to school after being out for a while). There is nothing wrong with taking a few detours along the way, as long as you recognize that it is a detour and that you'll have to make a few turns later to get back to your path. Moving back with the folks can be the smartest choice; sometimes it is the worst possible choice. The point is, you need to think about flying the plane first, and then focus on the myriad of other things that need your attention.K.N.K. Meoffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17791423490740642246noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409768897154578029.post-81694847554339816172011-12-31T07:46:00.000-08:002011-12-31T07:47:21.873-08:00Pronouns, possessives, and contractions, oh my!I don't think there are any classes of words that give people more trouble than these three. <i>Pronouns</i>: words that substitute for a noun or noun phrase, such as "it" for the full name of whatever "it" is. Possessives: a word showing that something belongs to or is associated with, such as John's thing. Contractions: combinations of words joined as one, such as "can't", meaning can not. These are pretty simple most of the time, but there are some cases where similar words, or similar sounding words get confused. And when you combine these, such as when you use a possessive pronoun, things can get even more confused. <br />
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In this post, I'll highlight the ones I saw today in some comments posted to news items I read over my morning coffee.<br />
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<h3>You, Your, You're</h3><p><i>You</i> is a pronoun that can be singular or plural (one of those English language things that make it difficult to learn).</p><p>The possessive form of a pronoun is <u>always</u> formed <u>without</u> an apostrophe, unlike most nouns. The possessive of you is <i>your</i>, <u>not</u> <i>you're</i>.<br />
</p><p><i>You're</i> is a contraction for <i>you are</i>. For example, “You're the one that I want.”</p><p><b>Right:</b> You're going to need your thinking cap if you are going to understand this.<br />
<b>Wrong:</b> Your stupid if you don't know you're pronouns, possessives, and contractions.<br />
</p><h3>It, Its, and It's</h3><p>This trio gives many people trouble. I remember one day debating with my boss about the possessive of “it”. He was certain it had to be <i>it's</i> based on the rule that to make a possessive you add an apostrophe and s. This is true of most nouns but <u>never</u> with pronouns.<br />
</p><p><i>It</i> is a third-person singular pronoun generally used to refer to inanimate things, or when the gender of the living thing isn't known. For example, “I ate the apple because it tasted good.” Or, “There is a skunk in the woodpile and it stinks.” (The other third-person singular pronouns (subjective case) are gender specific: he and she.<br />
</p><p><i>Its</i> is the possessive form of <i>it</i>. There is no apostrophe. “Everything is in <i>its</i> place.” “The bear returned to its cave.”</p><p><i>It's</i> is a contraction meaning <i>it is</i>. Like all contractions, the apostrophe indicates that two words are joined and some parts of the two are not shown. “It's a good thing that I'm so smart!”<br />
</p><p>These two are enough for now. I'll write about other pronouns, possessives, and contractions in another post. But feel free to do some research on your own. Wikipedia has a nice <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/It_%28pronoun%29" target="_blank">pronoun chart</a> that you may find useful.</p>K.N.K. Meoffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17791423490740642246noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409768897154578029.post-47032735931783827822011-12-30T09:09:00.000-08:002011-12-30T09:20:01.559-08:00Forwarding Emails without checkingNote: I include email, texting, and voicemail, along with sites such as Facebook and Twitter in "Social Media".<br />
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I got my usual dose of forwarded emails this morning. As usual, many of them were crap. I don't really mind senseless stuff, but I do mind stuff that gets passed around and taken as fact.<br />
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One was about using a new Bayer aspirin product if you feel a heart attack coming on, along with a few other tips. With just a couple of minutes of looking, it was obvious that the advice was bogus. I usually start with Snopes.com, who somehow gets these things before I do. (Actually most of this crap has been around for years). I also scanned through the sources given at Snopes (they aren't perfect) and found that the FDA also disagrees with the advice in the email, agreeing with Snopes.<br />
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The second one was a very cleverly composed email about Groundhog day and the State of the Union Address. There could be several ways to spin the cleverness, but unfortunately the author chose to try to improve on the facts by adding,<br />
<blockquote><i>In the coming New Year, 2012, Groundhog Day and the State of the Union address will occur on the same day. This is an ironic juxtaposition of events.</i><br />
</blockquote>That would certainly improve the story ... if it was true. The fact is that the State of the Union Address in 2012 is scheduled for January 24 and Groundhog Day is February 2. The email I received showed more than 6 forwards, showing that nobody in the list took the time to check the facts. Although I won't spend a lot of time checking the facts in stuff like this, I usually give it a minute or two. And definitely don't pass something on without checking it out first.<br />
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It is stupid to:<br />
<ol><li>Accept as fact information you get from an unknown source without checking the facts yourself. The amount of time you spend checking the facts depends on the importance of the information.</li>
<li>Forward stuff without at least doing a little checking, especially if the stuff says, "send this to all your friends".</li>
<li>Forward stuff that is of no value. Is it really funny or clever enough to pass on? Is there useful information in it? Will the person I forward it to be glad to get it? </li>
</ol>If something is said enough times, it becomes "accepted fact". The more bogus accepted facts floating around, the lower the overall intelligence of society. Stop being stupid!<br />
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P.S. The punch line of the State of the Union Address and Groundhog day is:<br />
<blockquote style="margin-bottom: 5pt;"><div class="ecxyiv1980843441ecxMsoNormal"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Arial;"><span style="font-family: Arial;">One involves a meaningless ritual in which we look to an insignificant creature of little intelligence for prognostication. The other involves a groundhog.</span></span></span></div></blockquote>K.N.K. Meoffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17791423490740642246noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409768897154578029.post-15976509303454385262011-12-29T11:35:00.000-08:002011-12-29T11:37:43.259-08:00Write RightYes, I know the title isn't grammatically correct, but I think it is an acceptable exception.<br />
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How you write, and speak, says a lot about you. It doesn't matter whether you are in a formal or informal situation, if you do not communicate well, you will be judged less intelligent. The key is to use language that is appropriate to the situation. Some things that may be acceptable in an informal situation might not be in a more formal situation.<br />
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Regardless, <b>it is stupid to use incorrect grammar, spelling, and sentence construction.</b> Sometimes there is a fine line between incorrect and accepted deviations. As an example, "C U tomorrow" is perfectly acceptable in a text or email message, maybe even in an informal letter. But, "Your an idiot!" is just plain wrong. (In case you are stupid, "Your" is the plural form of you. "You're" is the contraction for "you are", which is what is meant in this situation).<br />
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When a particular error is used enough, it might become standard usage, and therefore correct. The English language has grown over the years, and rightly so. But no amount of usage will make plain old wrong right.<br />
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In future posts, I'll cover errors I see and how to do it right.K.N.K. Meoffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17791423490740642246noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3409768897154578029.post-44925230197906028312011-12-29T11:01:00.000-08:002012-01-26T07:38:10.942-08:00High Heels are stupid<div style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">I came across a couple of interesting (i.e. disturbingly stupid) things today. One is a Gallop Poll that says, "</span><span style="font-family: Tahoma; font-size: small;">37 percent of the women surveyed said they would continue to wear high heels, even though they did not think them comfortable." I wonder how many would say that they would continue to wear them knowing that by the age of 40 they would be crippled? The second thing was an answers.yahoo.com Q/A I stumbled upon where an apparently young woman asked whether she should listen to people who are saying high heels are bad for her and stupid. The answer voted the "Best Answer" says, "</span><span style="font-size: small;">Heels look great on any woman. Like others say ignore them." Generally, I find good information at this site. Not this time.</span></div><br />
<div style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">I'm rather fond of women, and not really a foot person, but I don't find crippled feed attractive. Nor do I find bunions appealing, or women who can barely walk without pain. On top of that, despite all the hype to the contrary, I don't think high heels improve the look of legs.</span></div><div style="color: black;"><span style="font-size: small;">The facts are:</span></div><ol style="color: black;"><li><span style="font-size: small;">High heels don't make your legs look better or improve your overall appearance.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: small;">High heels will damage your feet, legs, and spine. Most women over 40 who wore high heels most of their lives have serious problems.</span></li>
</ol><span style="font-size: small; color:black;">While I'm on the subject, if you are going to be stupid and wear high heels, don't wear them with a bathing suit. What in the world are the beauty contest people thinking! </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="color: black;">If you do something continuously that you know will cause you major problems down the road, you are being stupid. Stop it!</span></span>K.N.K. Meoffhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17791423490740642246noreply@blogger.com8